More rockindeano MR bullshit....

This is the problem over there. dean gets to put shit up like this and Natalie calls me "babe" and we get blasted by all, yet dean will be made into robin hood again, fucking robin hood. Everyone over there will line up to thank him for such a funny thread. And before all is said and done the mod over there will join in and casually say "oh dean..." and then proceed to kiss him on the ass while I innocently flirted with a couple of friends and became the anti-Christ...Talk about the MR double standard! This is what I was talking about when I went public before leaving that board with andrew.
Heres the proof: http://forums.melodicrock.com/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=41421

I realize this thread has a very short life ahead of it.....

and one more damn thing. He talks about how people cannot express their opinions over there anymore without being blasted-how bout me deano???? How many times did you blast me???

Its so amazing how dean even had his little cronies attacking me. Only on a message board i guess. Dean talks his shit and Im sure he'd try it to my face but some of his little buddies over there would not EVER say that shit to my face that theyve spewed like pussy venom, that I can promise you.

It's just further proof of his blatant disrespect for women. But the masses will flock to him and further encourage his deviant behavior by telling him how "hilarious" he is. I'm certainly no hard-core feminist but it's men like him that give most of you a bad name.

Did he put up another creepy thread? When I see his name I don't read it anymore...I've got a good "ignore function" usually. He might drive away more people from a site than he draws in. But I suppose the little clique he's in doesn't want new people anyway.

He attacked me for no reason other than I disagreed with him on a thread. I don't think it's fair that he gets away with murder over there. He and his buddies can argue with each other and it's okay. (And they argue in language that I wouldn't want the kiddies to see. Yeah, it's Andrew's board but it's a public board that isn't locked to non-members like this one.) Others argue in a "civil manner" and the topic gets locked.

If you weren't banned from there, I'd say don't give in to him. Post interesting, music-related subjects that everyone can join in and bury his threads.

For anyone that wants to know, I post there as the first nickname I ever used...walkslikealady. Most of my nicknames have either Lady or cat/kitty in there somewhere.


Edited 'cause that last paragraph looked weird!

Natalie, you are so right but some will say thats what they expected me to say to one of your responses. But its a double standard.
Locokat-just click the link in my first box above-you'll see. I like Michigan Girl a lot, shes one of the ones I remain friends with and I think its insulting to her and anyone else he mentions and it pisses me off to no end. Sickening that he gets away with murder while others display some harmless "playing around" and become the bad guys.

Thanks, but I think I'll pass on the link. I'm sure if it's directed at women it's probably a bit disgusting 'cause that's the way he posts about women.

Some things posted can be funny and rauchy, but that guy doesn't seem to have that talent IMO.

locokat02 wrote:Thanks, but I think I'll pass on the link. I'm sure if it's directed at women it's probably a bit disgusting 'cause that's the way he posts about women.

Some things posted can be funny and rauchy, but that guy doesn't seem to have that talent IMO.

you pegged it dead on LK, and your right. Its disgusting and you dont wanna read it, you can only imagine since it came from him. Apparently we are a minority though.....

Well I guess the move is complete and he has settled in.

Natalie, I just read your response over there and you should be commended by everyone who finds that shit distasteful! Way to go!

Scarabgator wrote:Natalie, I just read your response over there and you should be commended by everyone who finds that shit distasteful! Way to go!

Thank you!
I just had to break my silence. What kind of a midwife would I be if I didn't fight for women's rights? Seriously, women do NOT deserve to be treated that way. I could go on and on and on about what's wrong with society as a result of such beliefs but I'll spare y'all. If someone said that about his daughter, I doubt he'd think it was as funny....but then again, it IS Dean we are talking about so...who knows?

If it's the thread directed to DrFu, Linda, and Michigan Girl, it seems to have a lot of hits. If the ones it's directed to don't like it and they don't let him know, he'll never learn any manners.

Me...I'm not going to bother with him anymore unless directly attacked. I do have a high blood pressure/heart condition and I don't need his aggravation.

locokat02 wrote:If it's the thread directed to DrFu, Linda, and Michigan Girl, it seems to have a lot of hits. If the ones it's directed to don't like it and they don't let him know, he'll never learn any manners.

Me...I'm not going to bother with him anymore unless directly attacked. I do have a high blood pressure/heart condition and I don't need his aggravation.

I don't think he'd learn anyway, but it's "just Dean, that's just the way he is" so, haha, it's funny. I can't understand why people give him a free pass to act like that when they freak out because someone mentioned that Susan Boyle needed some tweezers....seriously, his post is FAR more offensive than that!

I'll be interested to see how Linda responds. She has alot of class and I can't imagine she is going to be happy about that thread being directed at her. She doesn't strike me as someone that sinks to that level.

It appears that the thread is gone now....Kudos to Andrew for deleting it....not that it will matter, he'll be back.

My apologies for sleeping and not watching the board 24/7. The pills to keep me awake in order to do so are not working.
But now I have been awakened, I can now delete the offending thread.

Again, my apologies...I'll try and stay glued to the board all day today and all night tonight to ensure no one else gets offended in any way.

Andrew, I don't think anyone expects you to watch the board 24/7, the point is that Dean has always been allowed to post this way in the past. I agree that there have been times when you have been unfair in the things that you allow and the things you don't; however, honestly, I don't blame you, I blame his followers that praise him and tell him how hilarious he is when he posts shit like that.

I don't think he has too many followers there right now and I didn't appreciate the post. He will get a message about that.

Cheers,
Andrew.

Well, Andrew, thank you from all women who don't like to be degraded or called unwarranted names!

Me, I don't expect you to be there 24/7 'cause you do have another moderator for the Journey forum. You should not have to teach manners to your posters after they've been there awhile.

locokat02 wrote:Well, Andrew, thank you from all women who don't like to be degraded or called unwarranted names!

Me, I don't expect you to be there 24/7 'cause you do have another moderator for the Journey forum. You should not have to teach manners to your posters after they've been there awhile.

Well said. My problem is not with Andrew...it's with Dean and those who support him.

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I dont get it,i understand why new people would be upset, or even the girls he asked the question to, but i dont get why Nat would be upset.

blueskiesisaman wrote:I dont get it,i understand why new people would be upset, or even the girls he asked the question to, but i dont get why Nat would be upset.

It's the principle Yul. When he posts something like that on a public board it's offensive to me because it illustrates his disrespect for all women. Then several people jump in and say how funny it is, calling it "classic." That is just wrong! If it was truly a question he wanted to ask those two....and they would not have been offended then he should have PM'd them.

natalie wrote:

blueskiesisaman wrote:I dont get it,i understand why new people would be upset, or even the girls he asked the question to, but i dont get why Nat would be upset.

It's the principle Yul. When he posts something like that on a public board it's offensive to me because it illustrates his disrespect for all women. Then several people jump in and say how funny it is, calling it "classic." That is just wrong! If it was truly a question he wanted to ask those two....and they would not have been offended then he should have PM'd them.

I do understand "your" point, i just dont understand you making it, because your like the most sexual woman on the boards (at least from what i remember)some of the stuff i read here from (ed the guy i called big boy was super raunchy and you ate it up like it was nothing) i know most of that is a game but it just seems odd that you got so offended.

I think it would be like me going after someone on the board for putting up pictures of someones boobies,

I just thought it was strange that out of all the woman on the board, you would be the one that got pissed. i was reading and it didnt even sound like something you would say.I didnt recognize ANGEL so initially i thought it was someone new but then i saw the "at your cervix" and knew it was you. Still, even after reading it again it just didnt seem like something you would say, guess it just threw me off. Not trying to pick sides , just thought it was a strange occurance of events

I can tolerate a lot but blatant degradation and disrespect like that, I can't.